I believe that the best way to understand the meaning of a vague
topic is to analyze the outcome of its paradox. The realization of the
important aspects will result in a better recognition of the wisdom behind such
topic. In this case, the definition of dependency and how it affects our lives
will be our main focus.
First of all, a society consists of people who feel bounded by its
valuable culture and depend on each other to enrich their experience. Logically,
those individuals are loyal, faithful and willing to sacrifice their lives to
protect their country for freedom. The level of freedom varies from the war of independence
to the freedom of expression. For instance, is it possible to be free when we
are being judged by the society since we are part of it? Mahatma Gandhi said “Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make
mistakes.” Therefore, our choices are controlled by unwritten
boundaries and rules of our cherished society and the world around us.
Secondly, every human being consists of physical and personality
characters which are inherited from the people around us. For example, we are
the outcome of two persons' intimate relationship which shaped our physical features.
In fact, when we were children, our appearance was identical to one of our parents
or close relatives. As a result, during big family gatherings everyone is sure
that we are related to them since blood is bonding us together. Also, the
person’s interpersonal skills are obtained from the people around him since
they raised him to behave in a certain way. Does this mean that you are
independent from your family?
Moreover, the human body is a collection of organs connected together with
muscles, nerves and veins. Undoubtedly, the body system works in a functional rhythm
depending on the role of each organ and monitored by the brain cells. When you catch
a winter flu, the white blood cells will fight the infection which will result
in raising your body temperature, increasing heart rate and exhausting you
physically. This defense mechanism aims to collaborate the energy of your
heart and lungs to protect you from the
deadly virus. In a word, this would not have happened if each organ was independent from
one another.
In conclusion, not a living object is fully
independent, we are all dependent one way or another in different aspects. What
keeps us alive is the connection that we have to one another towards improving
our well-being. So, let's respect our differences and appreciate our connection because the world will not be beautiful and meaningful without us harmonizing together.
Your ideas of the bond, either cultural or biological, between human beings are really fascinating. I have to agree that this is a valid point. While you emphasize the ubiquity of connection, you do not ignore the difference. We all different being, but we are connected.
ReplyDeleteThank you Zheng Jeff for your comment. It is interesting how humans are connected yet each one of us has a unique path.
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